Help Me, Help You!

I'm not going to tell you what you need, for that matter, what I have to offer you. I'm going to ask 2 simple questions:
1. Help me understand what it is that you are trying to accomplish?
2. Help me understand why that is important to you?

Once I can understand you and your needs, it's only at that time, then I can truly help you. I've come to the realization that you can't cookie cut a private party vehicle seller and buyer and assume they all have the same needs. Yes, it's safe to assume they want to sell a vehicle or buy a vehicle. But what's important to me isn't necessarily important to you. Once you get beyond the simplicity of it, there truly is an art to understanding and to be understood. So, I say again, help me help you. If you think I'm way off base and it's about get 'em in and get 'em out, than help me understand why you feel this way! Dare to be heard. I don't see a lot of comments nor the willingness to voice an opinion. So, I'll keep writing and I'll keep assuming until someone helps me.